SettleForBrian.com
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Welcome to SettleForBrian.com. My name's Brian. That's me in the picture above. It's not a good picture of me. In fact, it may be the worst picture I've ever taken. If you went to a dating site like match.com, you would never see a photo like that. People hunt through hundreds of pictures to find the two or three that are most flattering. Some people even use professional photographers. When these people get dates through the web site, the person they meet is almost always disappointed because they're not as good looking as their photo suggested.

And it's not just physical appearance where this phenomenon exists. How many times have you gone out with a guy a few times, decided that he is an amazing person, only to discover something about him a week or two later that caused you to break it off?

The real issue here is not that the guy didn't look like Brad Pitt. And the issue is not that the guy was a Republican, or a Scientologist, or didn't take out the trash until it was overflowing, or didn't put the toilet seat down, or didn't like your friends, or whatever other letdown made you decide it wasn't going to work. The issue is expectations. You built up this person in your mind who ONLY existed in your mind. And then you were disappointed when you found out the real guy was a normal person, with problems and flaws just like everybody else.

So let's be clear here. You are not going to marry a guy who looks like Colin Farrell, is tough but sensitive, smart, funny, charms every room he's in, and pulls in the big bucks. I know you really want to meet that guy. I wish you could find him. I really do. But there's only like 4 of those guys in the world, and they're already taken. I'm sorry to tell you this, but it's time to think about settling.

I know what you're thinking. Settling is admitting defeat. Only losers settle, right? Wrong. Everybody settles. There are no perfect relationships. Do you think you're going to end up happy holding out for Mr. Right? You won't. You'll end up old, alone, and miserable. You don't want that. And I don't want that. So I'd like to propose an alternative.
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That's right. Settle for me.I'm by no means perfect, but you could also do a lot worse. In the end, you'd probably be happier with me than chasing the dream of Mr. Right. Most importantly, you'll start dating me with your eyes wide open because I've done my best on this web site to make sure your expectations are level set. I've put together a pretty comprehensive pros and cons list that details what is right with me, and what is oh so wrong. If after reading through that list, and looking through my pictures, you think I could be the kind of guy you'd settle for, go ahead and shoot me an email. Who knows what might become of it? You may even end up with your Mr. Right Enough.

If you don't think I'm the guy for you, but you like the idea of this web site and want to help out, go ahead and buy a t-shirt and start advertising me.
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